After the suicide of Robin Williams, the media has given much attention to the issues of depression and suicide. Although I am deeply saddened by the means of his death, I am comforted in the fact that our society has been made aware of the unseen hurt in those around us.
I don't think the average American could have estimated the suicide of a successful actor and comedian. This just goes to show that depression can happen to anyone; anyone can hurt deeply enough to want to end his or her life, and anyone can put on a mask to hide his or her true suffering. But as in Robin Williams's case, a mask can be the most dangerous weapon.
With my own chronic pain, I have seen signs of the side effect of depression. I have experienced the feeling of hopelessness to change my situation. I have been tempted with the thought of giving up in my effort to overcome my pain. But by the grace of God, I have not been consumed (Lamentations 3:22). 1 Corinthians 10:13 says, "No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to humanity. God is faithful, and He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation He will also provide a way of escape so that you are able to bear it." And with the joy of the Lord as my strength, I am now empowered to fight off any feelings of depression or hopelessness.
Although I am no longer struggling in this area, I believe that my struggle would have diminished had I removed my own mask. My mask is that of busyness. I tried to trick myself and other people into thinking I was fine by keeping busy. But the weapon of the mask was killing me on the inside.
Taking off my mask and revealing my hurt to others would have given me emotional healing more quickly. James 5:16 says, "Therefore confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, so that you may be healed. The urgent request of a righteous person is very powerful in its effect." Healing comes in admitting your weaknesses to a body of believers who team up to present your request to God. Being ashamed or embarrassed of your struggles doesn't help you in any way. Don't keep your feelings hidden; take off the mask.
